Yes, you read it right. On November 25, 1932, Ann and John eloped, defying the bride’s father who planned to marry her to a man 20 years her senior. Her family scoffed and declared her impulsive marriage would never last, but the couple proved them wrong. Now they have earned the title “longest married couple” and John Betar, 102, and Ann, 98, share their secrets of staying happily together for 81 years.

Does John really posses the “agree with whatever my wife says superpowers?” Or is it a simple as “always holding hands?” Curious? Read on.