She has also text knowing that this was during a time I was driving him to an event when she just spoke with him earlier that day via phone and knew this. Additionally, She told him to call him upon returning from a party, even though she knew he would not get home till 1:30am. He got home at 2:40am and just called her, and when I told him that he should not call that late, he just told me that this is what he told his mom he would do, because she requested it.
Often times my son stated that my ex-wife threatened to punish him in some way or that she would be angry that he did not answer her calls.
When I have called him when he stays with my ex-wife, 1/2 the time he rushes me off the phone and says he would call back later. Later comes, and there is no return call.
Lastly, my ex-wife has even arbitrarily taken the spring vacation week with my son, even though the parenting schedule stated clearly it was my time to be with him.
She often distorts reality and makes it hard for him to see for himself whats right or wrong.
Any suggestions of how to handle this situation?