I’ve been divorced for almost 2 yrs.
Between 2 marriages I have been married about 31 years, half of my life.
So being with someone is far more “normal” for me than not.
What I have encountered tho are women that say that I need more time alone??!!
So ladies…is there a set time that a guy must be alone BEFORE you would consider him a viable partner candidate?
I am being a bit snarky…but I am also wondering if there is a sweet time…say between 2-6yrs that we are considered ready for a long term commitment??
I am seeing a women now that has been single for the last 12 yrs and OMG…she wants to be with a man…but wants it on her terms.
I have expressed by DEEP affection for her and she gets scared that once we have sex I will be gone.
I have told her that is not happening.
I don’t know if I want to be married again…but It would be so wonderful to have more of a closer relationship with her.
I guess I feel that as I move in close she steps away but when she moves in close I don’t and that seems to push her away???
Damnit ladies…we are men and we are NOT perfect… LOL