Me, 56, man, midlife, motorcycle, faithful. Her, 55, menopause, motherinlaw moved in. I tried hard to make it work but after 4 weeks she asked me to go. She said she had been thinking about for years. I felt more and more alone for those years but never considered divorce. After a week in a motel, she asked me to find a more permanent place. I got a 6 month lease apartment. She has filed for divorce and has reasonable demands. We still have not signed a property agreement. The lawyers are working on it but I can't talk to them.
I am confused to why she will not just stay married and separate. It seems to have satisfied Her in this current arrangement for the last 2 months. I love her and she says she still loves me. We were almost to retirement. I am so confused and sad.