Okay, I have to get this off my chest. Just a reminder- I was blindsided in Oct 09 that he wanted a divorce, found out he has a girlfriend, we divorced in March 10. He tells his adult kids that he is in love with the thing . But he comes to see me about once a week and we talk and have a sexual relationship.
I know that this is considered not healthy for me and can keep me from moving on but I don't want to end it. And yes, I won't lie, I am still over the top in love with him though I know we can never put us back together again. I enjoy sex but am not one to sleep around and feel comfortable with him. I have only been with three men in my life. Toys don't do it for me.
We have a good relationship and hope to always stay friends. And I do socialize with friends a lot so know that I am not sitting at home waiting on him to call. I also find it rather funny that he says he is in love with her but still having a relationship with me. Kinda Ha! You did it to me and it was okay and now I am doing it to you little princess!
Still think it's a great thing to have and be a cheater? Karma? He tries to shove her down the adult childrens throats to meet her but they do not want to. They say they will never accept her but he just keeps after them. That's it for now and I am ready for all comments.......