So I’ve been with my wife for 7 years and married for three.
My wife got sick about a year after we got married and since then hasn’t been able to have sex. There are things that can be done but they take a long time. Years to work.
I just turned 30 a couple months ago and it has been two years since we’ve been able to be intimate.
I don’t know what to do, or how to cope. I don’t want other women, I’m not interested in an affair or anything of the sort. But when I think about facing the rest of my life in a sexless marriage I start to panic.
It doesn’t seem to bother her very much. There is little discomfort outside of sex so it doesn’t affect life outside of the marriage bed for her.
What do I do? I’m starting to develop pretty severe depression and I’m losing track of my mental health. Has anyone else here had to deal with anything like this?