My husband died before I found out he cheated on me

[Rosienyc]

Hang in there. It gets better. I know it is hard to understand but this was not about you. It was about him and his low self-esteem. He was a broken Prince Charming whose ego was too fragile to deal with a real woman who needed no rescue so he went found himself a princess to rescue. The fact that she was a stripper tells you every thing you need to know about how he saw himself as a stripper is not somebody "you bring home to momma".

[Rosienyc]

Italiaicemaiden: Find yourself a real, secure man with a healthy ego who can handle the queen you are. Princesses need rescuing. You do not. Prince Charmings are usually weak men who need somebody weaker so they can feel good about themselves. You need a real man, not a fragile, weak prince.

[Passionaterose]

September 18 2019
I was with my fiance for 14 years and 3 beautiful children.I knew we had our issues like any other couples but I never ever thought he was cheating.He was a active father. He always told me he loved me and also was always wanting intimacy. My fiance was murdered by the other womans boyfriend. I had to learn of his infidelity through the police. I'm so hurt I thought we were better than this. He always promised me that he would never do things like this. Because things like this brakes up family's. It's only been three weeks since his passing and I feel lost he use to take care of the majority of the bills and now everything is on me. Not to mention that he might have a child with this other person. And having to tell my kids about the cercomstanc of why there dad's not with us anymore. I'm sad I'm angry I'm lonely I feel betrayed like I wasted my best years on a lair and a cheater. I just keep asking myself was any of this real or was our family just a joke to him. So many questions I will never get answers to. It's sad how society glorifies being side chick because they don't understand or care how their damaging relationships, family's, and children. I appreciate everyone for being brave enough to share these stories because it has made me feel not so alone in this grieving process.

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