Wow! I got the shock of my entire life. My best friend's wife BLATANTLY offered sex to me. I was so taken aback by it. He's been my friend since sixth grade and she knows this. I've been friends with her for over a decade. I decided not to tell him. He has a bit of a temper and I really don't want to be in the middle of his marriage.
However, my stance as far as telling him to save the marriage has changed. I told him to do what makes him happy. All I could say to her is "I can't do that" repeatedly. I should have cussed her ass out but I was in too much shock. I'm a bit offended that she thought she could cross the line with me. We have confided in each other several times about things but I never disrespected my best friend by showing any interest in her. She is off limits period.
I truly thought she was one of the good ones. This experience makes me more pessimistic about ever finding a woman that truly can be trusted. I swear... My son's teacher hit on me last year while I was separated. Her fiance works with me in an other department. I have more "off limits" women show interest than available women.