My best friend's wife

Wow! I got the shock of my entire life. My best friend’s wife BLATANTLY offered sex to me. I was so taken aback by it. He’s been my friend since sixth grade and she knows this. I’ve been friends with her for over a decade. I decided not to tell him. He has a bit of a temper and I really don’t want to be in the middle of his marriage.

However, my stance as far as telling him to save the marriage has changed. I told him to do what makes him happy. All I could say to her is “I can’t do that” repeatedly. I should have cussed her ass out but I was in too much shock. I’m a bit offended that she thought she could cross the line with me. We have confided in each other several times about things but I never disrespected my best friend by showing any interest in her. She is off limits period.

I truly thought she was one of the good ones. This experience makes me more pessimistic about ever finding a woman that truly can be trusted. I swear… My son’s teacher hit on me last year while I was separated. Her fiance works with me in an other department. I have more “off limits” women show interest than available women.

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It’s depressing isn’t it? I have married women constantly offering themselves to me. The only married woman that isn’t interested in me is the one I’m married to!

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I think there will probably come a time that you will tell him, but you are right to guide him with do what makes you happy. The people (because there are both men and women in this category) that have no respect for marriage vows, either their own or someone else’s, will never truly value what they have. They will always be looking for something else, something better. They won’t ever be satisfied. There are good women out there, just like there are good men out there. You just have to plow through a pile of bullshit to get to the real deal sometimes and most importantly…GO SLOW and really get to know that person.

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with this type of person what you do is: TURN AROUND AND RUN! DON’T EVEN TALK TO THEM!

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