I was married for 10 years, together with my wife for 13. We had a relationship that had turned into roommates. We didn't sleep in the same bed, we had basically zero in common and there was no support from her to me. I felt like I was being kept around to help her with paying bills, and since we were comfortable together. Truthfully, I was unhappy and dreaded going home.
Regardless of all I typed above, it has broken my heart to leave, I tried to talk to her numerous times about the lack of support that I felt I was getting, and things would change for a week or two but would ultimately go back to where we were. I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, and I'm sure I'm not unique in leaving my spouse and being heart broken afterwards. I just wanted to know if anyone has any advice to make this whole process a little easier.
Leaving my wife, my pets, and my life in another house just tore me apart, I just am struggling to process everything and was hoping to hear from someone that has experienced this before.