Just left my wife

I was married for 10 years, together with my wife for 13. We had a relationship that had turned into roommates. We didn’t sleep in the same bed, we had basically zero in common and there was no support from her to me. I felt like I was being kept around to help her with paying bills, and since we were comfortable together. Truthfully, I was unhappy and dreaded going home.

Regardless of all I typed above, it has broken my heart to leave, I tried to talk to her numerous times about the lack of support that I felt I was getting, and things would change for a week or two but would ultimately go back to where we were. I am not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, and I’m sure I’m not unique in leaving my spouse and being heart broken afterwards. I just wanted to know if anyone has any advice to make this whole process a little easier.

Leaving my wife, my pets, and my life in another house just tore me apart, I just am struggling to process everything and was hoping to hear from someone that has experienced this before.

Thanks!

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You are not alone anymore, even if it may still feel that way. You apparently love her very much, are feeling pain and suffering. You are experiencing the effects of being alive. Life without pain or suffering provides no reference to realize happiness. Philosophy aside, I have been with my soulmate for over 35 years, married for 31 this March 5th, 2019. I believe we love and care about each other as much as soulmates can, however we recognize that in order to remain compassionate we must allow each other to pursue and and nourish our individual and collective happiness. We will remain soulmates, but at the same time understand and respect that we have unique and personal goals require the freedom in order to pursue and accomplish. You will get through this and understand why it was necessary to find long term happiness in your life. I hope that my thoughts and words help you. I too am “not perfect” and embrace support while I experience this transition in my life.

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Start focusing on the reasons you left and begin rebuilding your life. Clearly you were unhappy, it is ok to go through a mourning period but please, you are now liberated! You must acknowledge how brave and strong you were to take this decision… you chose to be happy. Go on and leave your life!

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I hope things have gotten better for you. I’d love to share more but am so tired. I just want to let you know that you & yours are in my thoughts & prayers. - Stacie

I would suggest searching deep within to find a reason to fight if she is willing to try counseling do so. Marriage isnt always gonna be happy and fun. But it should be loving, respectful and supportive.

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You mentioned you felt like you were only kept around for paying the bills? Just a thought, we’re you anything more to her than someone who pays the bills? What I’m meaning is we’re you there FOR her when she needed you? Do you easily give your support and understanding towards her? Sometimes we see what the other spouse lack to give us and we forget if we give the same to our partner.