My stbx and I have 50/50 joint legal and physical custody of our son. I make much more money as she has chosen to work part-time only. I pay a hefty support and still have to provide for my son at my house as if there was no support monies spent. I live in PA and the calculators they have are financial only. I still have to pay her APL as well and it has been tough making ends meet. PA doesn't care why you are divorcing, just that whoever makes more ends up paying more. She has recently been held to an earning capacity, which is good in the short term, but it was calculated WAY under what she can truly make. I will need to revisit the issue yearly. Do seek counsel for the support issue but be wary as they like conflict. It pays their bills.