We have been married for over 18 years and the marriage has been very unromantic the whole time. The lack of romance has become unbearable for me. I'm to the point where I don't even want to work on it any more. Yesterday I asked her if she loved me and she couldn't say she did.
She just said she cares about me and wants to work on saving the marriage. She started crying and it broke my heart. We can't say we love each other and I have no desire to work on this any longer. I'm ready to leave and begin a new happier chapter of my life but yet I don't want to hurt her. What do I do?