Husband is the sole provider while Im sahm, sometimes he works long hours, sometimes he is at home by 3-4pm.
We have 3 kids 1yo,5yo,7yo.
Sometimes I need to do stuff and ask him to watch the kids, he gets mad, and if he does it is for like 20 mins and then he just goes outside (by himself) to smoke or be on the phone, then he "forgets" that he is supposed to watch them, then I end up nagging/bitching wich he gets annoyed (And I understand) then he ends up saying I can't handle my kids, the kids are my job...
I understand he is tired from work but I get tired too, but I never stop, there is always messes to clean, so many sleepiness nights, Im not asking for him to clean the house, I ask him to spend time with the kids so I can do other stuff that I can't have the baby around.
Anyways we got into a huge argument and I kicked him out and I feel horrible for it, and now he is angry at me for that, .
But how is it fair that I have to go grocery shopping with all the kids while he plays video games.
Ughhh Am I super wrong???
I don't want to divorce, but I can see it coming from him