I decided to move out because my spouse refuse to

My spouse and I are seperated unnder the same roof
There is alot of tension in the home.
My 20 yeArs old daughter told me that you can feel the tension when you walk in the house
I told my spouse that we will no longer argue with eCh othed
In front of my grandkids or our daughter
I told him my daughter say she depressed and she saysa
That it is hard for her to get out if bed in the mornibg
I feel like a failure as a parent
I was not a good example for her

I know it best that one of us move out
And I think it suck that i be the one to go

I’m not a parent myself, but most of the parents I know have similar feelings. I’m sure you have made mistakes, but that’s part of raising a kid. If your daughter has depression, though, that’s a health issue that should be addressed by a doctor, and it’s not your fault. Have you taken her to a doctor or a therapist? That might be helpful.

Also, I noticed that it’s been about a month since you posted this… has your situation at home improved at all?

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no it has not.
i will be going to counsel next week

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hi
my StBX is mean. because he know I am done with him.
And he try to push my buttons. i will be graduating soon with Bachelor. My plan was to move out but now I am worry about student loan.
i dont hate him at all. i just want to move on with my life. i want to love and be love again. no marriage and no living together
i just want to heal and accept it over aFall in Love Again

I think it’s wonderful that you’re pursuing your education. If you can focus on that, it will surely help get you through this tough time. Plus, that’s something no one can take away from you! Love will come in its own time, and you will find a way to manage your student loan. I believe that good things come to those who leave the bad behind and open up space in their hearts for it to arrive. :slight_smile:

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thank you
i am worry about my loan though
but i must believe it will work itself out

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