Well I don't think anything sound crazy so I have read a few stories, and I'm leaving mine, this will be short.I've been married for 41 years. We meet while both in the army, 28 years on the road, sex was great, after. He retired, an we come to my home town to live things were still pretty good, about 14 years ago we took custody of 2 of my sons children because of drug an alcohol problems, we both worked shifting schedules to fit kids again.,then my hubby wanted me to stay home an give me a allowance instead of working, well over the past year we have been hit with a 15000 irs payback, my grandson is in drug court for bad choices, my grand daughter has just had major brain surgery, ..and to top all this off I found out my hubby went this past weekend to a hotel, to meet a man and he's wife for sex....this is how I found out, got up early sunday, hubby s wallet had fell on floor, pick it up along with a receipt, I scan receipts for savings, I look at it an see, condoms..I'm shocked beyond belief..I wait for him to get in shower, he's taking my granddaughter back to meet her mom a 2 he drive, excuse myself from the drive, because I literlly feel sick, well so I go check in he's truck, and what do I find, condoms left, my personnel toys, mouth wash toothbrush. Now I'm really sick, so I take the receipt and hand it to him, n say new item, he replies yes thought we have some fun tonite, I'm like sure, so then I see him outside in he's truck, knew what was going on he was moving the evidance, which I had pic of allready, so I wanted till Monday to confront him, he never denied it actually said he went, and watched an it did nothing for him, said he he never particaped at all....I'm lost...