This is my first time leaving a post on here. I must say I am not thankful that I had to find this site, but I am greatful that I did come across it. It has helped me so much! My stbx was the one who initiated the separation. He's still "friends" with the "friend" that has caused me so much heartache.
I read a blog yesterday that sounded like I wrote it (it was the one about how does it seem that the "leaver" can live life so easily....he/she is not in pain, etc.) Well, I'm here today to ask everyone.....your opinion....how does the "leaver" maintain a relationship with someone that can hurt us so bad!
Do they not care about us at all? How can they live their life engaging with someone ...in a relationship...or as my stbx would call it ..."friendship" that obviously started out as a LIE? How do the continue to engage in a "friendship" where each person is still married and not carry the burden of guilt with them every day? I could NEVER do that!
How can my stbx, engage with a woman that obviously has no morals? Our children knew her as "daddy's coworker"...She works with daddy, etc. Why haven't they seen what they're doing is hurting and so WRONG? What do you all think?