My husband and I were together for 26 years, divorced in January and got back together in April and split again for the final time 1 month ago.
A few days after we split my ex got together with someone that he told me before was just a friend. They now live together. I can't stop thinking about him with her. It's not that I'm jealous, I absolutely am not. She is a total loser.
I can't stop wondering what he sees in her, worrying that he's going to start doing drugs again (they are both addicts). I felt it was my job to worry about him for so long I am having a really hard time convincing myself not to worry. I know I need to just let it go but I can't seem to force it from my mind. Any advice?