The woman that he cheated with. I know he has moved on but I asked him to celebrate with her and our daughter the next night when she would be staying at "their" place. He was more than welcome at the event. Our divorce trial was 3 weeks ago. I did not want our daughters graduation to be about his new toy. Or another opportunity for him to twist the knife deeper in my heart yet that is what it became.
They entered late, sat accross the room. Draped all over each other, she wearing a clevage busting tank top and tossing her hair like a teenager. ok fine. I ignored them and watched my daughter and her friends. Took lots of pictures. Post ceremony daughter makes a beeline to them. I hold back with her grandma, aunt and cousin. 10, 15 minutes.... so on.
Finally THEY choose to leave as they do SHE (his new piece) blows me a kiss. I get so angry I start shaking. I can only think how badly I would love to just knock her off her high horse. I didnt. I did walk over and ask if there was something she wanted to say to me in person? She stammerd then said no. Then she tells my soon to be X that "she is not worth it." That was it for me....I looked at her and said ya know... doesnt matter what dress you put on it a whore will always be a whore.
Then I walked away before I said or did more. I could not believe the ordacisty of her to go, then to antagonize me as if my X is a prize? Ummm no. I walked in on him two weeks after my dad died and caught him in bed.... Did he comfort me during my loss....NO. She can have him. How do you handle a situation where the other parent will no cooperate for the interest of your child. He chose to bring her to flaunt her not to honor our daughter.