hello. my husband died two months ago from cancer at 70. we were married for 38 years with two grown up children, a month after his death i found out that he had been cheating on me for almost all our married life, the last 16 years have been all documented and i found that there were dozens of women, from prostitutes to longer term mistresses to facebook friends to dating sites and so on. I am devastated. unable to function. I had nursed him through his illness for the last 1.5 years and he never told me anything not a single forgive me. he was a monster and i feel so cheap and cheated and old.