My last marriage ended cause I fell out of love with her, or maybe I was not that in love with her to start with.
Anyways..we were married for 9 yrs. My previous marriage was 22 yrs.
In between marriages I met someone on a dating site. We talked but never met due to circumstances.
When I told her that I was remarrying she asked me why? Almost as if asking me to please meet her then decide.
I didn't and it haunted me.
Anyways now single again I am finding myself in that same place. Seeing someone that I am happy with but not I guess wanting to put in the effort..but I like having her there cause it's someone that I have.
But there is another women that I am meeting this week.
We also met on Zoosk over a year ago, but due to distance and other things our meeting is happening this week.
My therapist says that men choose women much like musical chairs, when the music stops we just sit down..
that sounds so sad.
But yet I kinda feel that way again.
There is more to this whole thing..but I just wanted to share..to see if other guys have had the same experience.