Hi, ex-wife to a crazy ex-husband here. Been divorced for 7 years, two kids. At the beginning, I wasted a lot of energy worrying about and trying to explain to everyone how crazy he was, with the result of making myself look crazy. A sad fact of divorce is that noone wants to get involved with a he said, she said scenario. Now that I’ve dealt with this for a while, I have come to realize that if I build my own relationships and just let him talk, he proves the point (that he is crazy) on his own, shooting himself in the foot. It takes a lot of patience to learn not to let every email, every text and every communication make your blood boil. Never react on emotion, you never need to respond right away, let it sit for a bit, think about whether a response is needed at all, and then just state facts. You need to become technologically saavy. You can block people on Facebook, and this is probably the most effective privacy setting on Facebook, you become invisible to them, and them to you. This even works if you have mutual friends, for example your kids. If you post on their page, and you have blocked your ex-wife, she can’t see it. She can’t post on your FB either. We are here for you.