What's really funny is, everyone said that my ex and I were perfect together, we had many similarities. And, in many ways, they were right. We shared many of the same ideas, thoughts, likes, dislikes. However, we also shared that very fatal flaw of pushing down was was bothering us. So much that it caused us to explode. Well, I exploded, he imploded- and that, my dears, is where the problems arose. I'm sure that if I was on a dating site and he was, too- that it would match us. I get that. And, it really would not bother me. I'd find it rather funny. But, I also know that we can't work together because our idea of how to deal with reality is on opposite ends of the spectrum.