I am so embarrased I have to ask this - but I don’t know what else to do. Long time lurker - first time poster. My bf of a year and a half recently got into an accident and was found to be over the limit for alcohol (not enough to be a felony but enough to detain him in jail). I could give you every reason in the book why - but its not relevant.
He screwed up, he knows he did and understands he will pay for what he did and face the consequences. He had a dui seven years prior. My problem with this situation is ex-h of a year and a half is very vindictive and has made it quite clear he would be more than willing to have our kids full time. (Right now we have joint everything) and it is not an amicable split.
He has a lawyer in the family so running a background check on bf would be no problem if he hasn’t done so already. Bf and I had big plans for the future - but last night he announced if I got any hint ex-h was going to use bf’s history against me he was going to walk away now. Obviously he and I agree my life with my children is first priority but I’m not gonna lie this will be devestating. Do we have a valid reason to be worried?