It's absolute bullshit to walk away with an excuse of not meeting sexual energies. Sex is just a part of the relationship and when a person is just focused on the sex part of it makes the person SHALLOW. Sex is something a couple can always communicate and work over via sex experts and gynaecologists, trustworthy friends, etc. All you need is a way to make it work out. If the other person doesn't meet your sexual needs, does that mean other things like affection, care, support don't need work and they don't contribute to the overall relationship? I mean is your high libido woman/man going to ride on you and help you heal when you are lying down on a hospital bed or that caring woman/ man who prays for you and supports you through thick and thin and who can also potentially work out sex with you?
I recently had a break up when I felt used by a a low self esteem fellow who rubbed his ass for 6 years just to get in my pants. He expected great sex without working on other factors such as, intimacy, romance, spark, communication, understanding because he just wanted is S.E.X. He is what? UNAFFECTED!!!. He continues to live the same lifestyle and try to convince women as a mild little innocent baby who needs some love and caring.
I greatly believe that somewhere or the other, it is all about your family values and the way you have been raised as an adult.
I my case, the guy's family holds no value. the guy's father itself is an infidel and does it openly in front of his mother. The mother is helpless because she belongs to a money deprived family and is uneducated, which makes her stick to his dad no matter what.