Hopefully you'll get a kick out of this. I met a man, It seemed great, we were just getting to know each other, but he was a lot more interested in me than I was in him. I was, in his words, the woman of his dreams, everything he ever wanted, blah blah blah. I had a few others I was dating at the same time. I didn't even kiss him, let alone have sex with him.I found out that he cheated on his wife. That was 9 years ago. I don't care, He cheated. I dumped him.He can't understand it at all. I told him that he was still blaming her for his cheating (well, we fought but I stayed with her for the kids but I wasn't getting any). So what? This is not ok.I will not date a cheater. He was in love. I wish I knew his x. I'd show her the emails and texts. He might not have regretted it then, but he sure does now! He keeps calling. Not happening. This is something we can do for the innocent spouses. Dont' date the cheating x. If he did it to her he'll do it to you. Reverse gender if you're a man.