So after finally being able to talk to my wife about divorce, one of my inlaws became really sick (diagnosed with ELA). Obviously, my wife is torned and has focused entirely on helping her parents and siblings. I totally get that right now she must be there for her family.
My question to these forum is: the correct thing for me to do is wait for a better time to bring again the divorce issue, right?
She is a wonderful mother to our kids, she has been there for me in tough times and my inlaws all of them have been great. I realize that a divorce process right now would be exhausting. I think that for the time being I need to focus on helping out with the kids, house chores, and when things with my sick inlaw is a bit more stable and my wife is back on her feet, then bring back again I want out.
We’ve been so distanced from one another so much and for such a long time, that it should not be hard to hold on for the time it takes for her to be better.