I will be moving out of my house within two weeks, I am so nervous about doing this. I was told to take everything that I want with the move, because that will be my last chance to get what I want. We were married close to 20yrs and everywhere I look there is so much that I want to take with me.
How do you choose what to take when you are downsizing knowing there will not be another chance until the divorce is complete. I just feel so dead inside today and I really feel like crying, not because of him but this whole situation. Since I have no job at the moment, I am very careful of what I spend because I am using my savings that I put aside. I was told by my lawyer the only way I can get money from him is by moving out, otherwise I do not get one cent. I wish I saw this happening to me six years ago.
I started saving but only a year ago. I put so much into helping him with his ebay acct, and never took money for myself but put it into the mortgage and bank acct. Now he gets the house and I move to the apartment. I asked him to pick up some dog treats and a little chicken or turkey lunch meat for our dog, he told me didn't have the money and Nina can eat dog food without the extra lunch meat.
I felt like ripping his face off, I am sure Nina is upset with how we are in here. He has money for buying his liquidation items like crazy, buying his coffee and donuts and eats them at home, buys his food and is golfing, and with a girl friend, I am sure he takes her out. He was to go on a golfing trip this week but didn't go, I am not sure why, but he was home and than gone some days, but I know it was not work.
Oh how I have rambled on......I am just so upset, I need to get my stuff (furniture, clothing, decorations, baskets, kitchen items, bath items, any thing that is mine) out of the house, this is such stress. If I leave it behind, I am afraid he will give it away to his girlfriend or whoever. I am worried he will try to block me taking my stuff, any one have an experience with moving out without the stbxh knowing????