I'm madly in love with my boyfriend and and love being with him. We get along great, have never fought about anything, never been in an arguement. Though just recently we did have to have a discussion about his ex which made things between is awkward.
They were together for about 7 years, up until about 4 years ago when they separated. He stayed single up until about 6 months ago, trying and hoping to patch things with his wife (who has been with someone else for the past 2 years) when we got together, it was obvious that it upset her because he was with someone else and not comfortably up her backside anymore she refuses to even meet me, says bad things about me to him, and says things like him being a "step daddy" to my kids which is just out of line. I understand they have two kids together and I know that he has to deal with her.
But she's came to the point where she calls him for ridiculous things (like to have him sit on the phone with her while she walks up to a building at night to make sure she's ok) and just last week she got put in on the 5th floor of the hospital for making a "harmless" comment about "driving her car off a bridge" She was in there for 6 days, and he had to go up there 4 times, plus pick her up and give her a ride home when she was released.
Am I crazy or is that a bit inappropriate? He's with somewhone now but still feels like he has to answer to get every beckoning call. Even when he knew it upset me. Then I calmly and as nice as I could explained to him that it wasn't right, he acted like he didn't understand. I don't know what to do at this point. Any advice?