Hi all, I am new to this and I know I have never told my whole story, but I need advice on what is going on currently in my relationship. My husband and I have been married for almost 12 years. Every time we get in an argument he turns to divorce; however, he usually does nothing about it and we continue on as though it was never said.
More recently, since our last argument, about a month ago things have been very distant between my husband and I. He as taken his weding ring off, he is sleeping on the couch, and there has been nothing physical between us at all. We are both currently going to our own therapy sessions to work through our own issues before we can work on our issues together. What I don't understand is that he tells me that he does love me, however, he does not want to dive back into our relationship because we keep going through this vicious cycle of having a few good months and then fighting. We have gone through this about 4 times over the past 8 months. I can understand wanting to take it slow and rebuilding our relationship, what I don't understand is why sleep on the couch, or not wear your ring, or even be able to hold my hand.
Why is there nothing? I love my husband more than anything, and I don't want a divorce, but I am scared that is the direction that he is heading.