I wouldnt want flowers after sex. Maybe before would be nice. After, I am happy with .... maybe some conversation? Not the serious kind but the intimate relaxed joking banter that shows he still sees me as a person he wants to spend his time on. Something meaningfull but not full of to many promises I guess I would say. As much as I love to get flowers (red & white roses) lol Flowers have become quick and impersonal. Sleep with some one and realize you are not interested but cant let them down easy....send flowers and change phone number. Nope, after sex, I want some time and attention. Keep the flowers and overly mushy sentimental cards. Call me and say something silly to make me laugh. Let me know I am in your thoughts, that means much much more to me.