Very true, I thought I was going crazy with, not him but me. He was the crazy one, but I felt like I was suppose to figure out the crazy and still stay sane because I knew , I was'nt like this before I got with him. I was the cool, loving , young lady that everyone loved but him. It seemed what made me great was what made him dislike me more and more. I speak for a living and that's how I caught his attention I thought. But by the time I was well in the marriage after about a year or 2 he would always tell me you talk to much, why don't you shut up sometimes or what you saying makes no sense that's why everybody can't stand to be around you.. and yet I my teaching and talking after I left him was even greater to my friends. It was'nt me sounding and being stupid it was him trying to make me feel stupid.