Congratulations! You are free to date...right? You can finally find your soulmate, the ONE, the person that your ex never could be, etc. But are YOU ready? Have you dealt with the baggage that you've collected over the years? Are you in a good mindset to offer something to someone new who isn't the person with whom you have history? Or are you looking to show that ex what mad skills you having landing a new love? Show them that you're still desirable to someone? You must cleanse yourself of these issues before you waste someone's time or break their heart. If you let past offenses come into your new situation with warrant, it's doomed. Actions will always speak louder than words. Be ready and be open. You might find someone worthwhile.