So..are these 2 elements exclusive of each other or a mixture??
I am sick and TIRED of women saying that they are looking for a SPARK in the relationship.
If you think about it a spark is like static electricity, a TAZER GUN or a lighting bolt..It FLASHES..you may feel it but it's then GONE just a quick. In the case of lighting there is damage. WHO WANTS THAT???
Maybe that spark is good for a HOOK-UP..and a happy ending only is in the movies.
Chemistry I understand and have been on the giving and receiving end of it. I know getting it SUCKS but then again I may have been so invested at the start.
Ladies..I know that you came out of a partnership that ended bad. TRUST is weak. But you want to move on..just as I do. It just seems that I get the "NO SPARK" comment often..as an excuse.
To be blunt..I feel that at times I am behind the 8-ball from the start. I know we all protect our hearts..but if you are seeking a relationship NOT dating buddies, then make sure your HEART and HEAD are together on this.